Through Eyes That Have Cried
There are many things that can only be seen through eyes that have cried. —Oscar Romero
Divorce
Diagnosis of cancer
Husband who is not a believer
A child who is addicted to drugs
An unplanned pregnancy
Crippling anxiety
Losing a job
Being homeless, living in a car
Physical abuse in the home
Depression
Death of a child
Chronic pain
Dependency on alcohol
Trauma from having been sexually abused as a child
Served time in prison, unable to get work as a felon
Struggling to get off of methadone
Teenage child ran away from home
Haunted by memories of being raped
Had to drop out of school in order to work
A young child in the hospital
Deep insecurity
Death of a spouse
Being unwanted—as a teenage foster child
Unable to pay bills, children in the home with food insecurity
Lived entire life with knowledge that her father did not want her—he even tried to beat her out of her pregnant mother
Family member who just got a DUI
Fear of family being deported
Regret having an abortion
Loneliness
Being sued
Children who don’t know the Lord
These aren’t things in my imagination. I didn’t sit down to write creative examples of difficulties some people out there might potentially be experiencing. No. These are real. Real people who I know. People in my church.
Perhaps you can relate to one or more of these circumstances. Maybe some of them seem so far outside of your own experience that they are hard to imagine, difficult to relate to. But here’s the thing: we all have experienced pain, hardship, suffering, loss, and struggle. It’s with those eyes that we are able to see.
Through eyes that have cried… we see one another. We recognize anguish. And we are moved to say something, do something.
Let’s see how inventive we can be in encouraging… and helping out. —Hebrews 10.24
Golden apples, PB.
More unconditional love. Yes, more.